Today is Mother's Day and I want to take time to thank my children for making life so sweet. My children are my best friends and there's no one I'd rather spend time with than family. So, here's to the ones that made the difference in my life!
Thank you for your love and kindness, especially your examples of genuine care and concern for others. Many times I have witnessed your willingness to assist strangers in need, without judgement or conditions; you inspire me with your generosity and I hope to grow up to be just like all of you!
Thanks for the "goofy sense of humor and practical jokes" that you have kept in perpetual motion! I have enjoyed a lifetime of laughter and there's never a dull moment when we're together. The hilarious skits and talents you have shared over the years has given me a lifetime of cherished memories! My favorite is when each one of you kept changing the screen saver on my phone to your goofy selfies and writing across the screen, "MOM LOVES ME BEST!" I never knew who's picture would pop up next. How in the world you got my phone without me knowing is still a mystery and yes you are right, I ALWAYS loved you best!
Thanks for the great food and believe it or not, the boys can out cook the girls. Sorry girls, but it's true. Your brothers bring it on every time. Not that you aren't great cooks, cause you are, but they seem to be fearless!
Thanks for being wonderful parents and for teaching your children honesty and self respect. I guess all those times you were grounded and had to work your way out of the "dog house" has taught you the value and importance of choice and accountability. Sweeeeeeet and passing it on to the second generation, no less!
Thanks for supporting a strong work ethic and for not being afraid to apply yourselves. You've always stood head and shoulders above mediocre and if I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times, "Quitters never win and winners never quit." Thanks for pushing yourselves; the picture of success is always much clearer at the top.
Thanks for calling and texting me everyday! There is nothing better for a mother than to get a messages from her child that says, "Where the heck are you??? I am trying to get ahold of you and you're not answering your phone, I am worried! Contact me right away." Ha, I am just getting back at you for all those teenage years when I said the same things to you!
I laugh every time I think that during high school, some of you spent months plotting to get out of the house... and the rest of your lives trying to get back in!!! Guess I got the last laugh on that one!
I don't have words to express how much I love each one of you and I wouldn't change a thing. When you were younger, the tears in life built strength and wisdom, the struggles brought about loyalty and devotion, and the laughter just made it all worth it! Thanks again for the best run of my life! I love each of you with all my heart. Hugs and kisses, Mom
P.S. The best gifts you ever gave me were the grandchildren. Couldn't be more proud of them!
EVERY LITTLE THING MATTERS
Kindness is the universal language that brings us all together, and regardless of our nationality or language, everyone can feel its power. Kindness is about showing up in the live's of others for the greater good, and expecting nothing in return. A study by Rowland and Curry in 2019 found that people who performed acts of kings for seven days experienced greater happiness, and it created a tremendous ripple effect that inspired others to act the same. Showing kindness also increases gratitude; one small tree can produce a million match sticks providing light and warmth to many. A kind environment is the foundation for peace and harmony in the home and workplace. Kindness is intentional and it's created
out of self-love, self-respect and self-esteem. Love and kindness
are two gifts that only increase in value when they are given
away.
Every creation in life has meaning and purpose. When climbing the ladder of success, we will pass by many people on the way up, but we will also pass those same people on the way down. Be kind and good to those around you, and you will find an abundance of love and kindness in return. No act of kindness, no matter how small is ever wasted, and the sweet secret of life is, "all that is worth doing, is that which we do for others."
Kindness also accompanies gratitude. There is nothing more valued and respected than a heart filled with gratitude. Gratitude is a powerful virtue that can change darkness into light. Remember the Bees: Be good, Be kind, Be loving, Be humble and Be grateful, and you will always be BE-UTI-FUL. Linda Sumner Urza, onefineday11.blogspot.com
TAKE 2 OF THESE & CALL ME IN THE MORNING
There seems to be a drug available today for every ailment imaginable, but maybe taking more medication is not always the answer. The dangerous side effects from drugs can often outweigh the consequence of the illness. Have you read any of the warning labels on prescription drugs lately? Only a science fiction thriller could create a scenario more frightening than the effects these drugs have on the human body.
Drug companies are constantly working to promote more drugs. That's why they're in business, they only see dollar signs $$$, but are drugs the only solution? There's detailed health information available at our finger tips on the internet. Do the home work!
We are constantly being bombarded by the media with drug "cure alls" and the commercials on depression and anxiety are relentless. I get depressed just watching them. When I was a child, people were too busy for despair. We had chores, school, paper routes, band practice, and homework. Each family member carried their load and worked hard to make life better. We actually engaged in "a real life" because our parents taught us that the future of this country depended upon our success.
I am not saying that all medications are bad, but I think it’s imperative to understand the side effects they induce, which in many cases are far worse than the illness.
My how things have changed! I remember four things I worried about as a child: a stomach ache, the common cold, a sore throat and getting bit by Mrs. Greenstreet’s snotty nosed, rat haired dog! The only time we were taken to the doctor was for a gapping flesh wound or when someone stopped breathing, and occasionally someone stopped breathing when they realized they had a gapping flesh wound.
Mother's were creative and used band aides, ginger ale, cod liver oil, heating pads, ice packs and ace bandages. The statistics for my generation rebounding without medical attention was greater than those who succumbed to a doctor's care (which meant, less people relied on a doctor and without incident).
Very few people went to the dentist. As a matter of fact, there was only one in the entire city and that was Doc Labine, who also doubled as the sports announcer. Loose teeth were pulled by an older brother who tied a piece of string to the door knob and then slammed it with a certain amount of pleasure. Occasionally a pair of pliers was used for a stubborn molar. My mother used hot salt water to soak and cleanse our wounds, including a few drops to treat eye infections or clearing a stuffy nose. A trip to the doctor was very rare and it had to be absolutely necessary; the fee was usually around $10.00. Today, with the high cost of health care, the only doctors we can afford to see are the ones on TV.
I have listed a few random side effects from the most common drugs on the market today. Secure yourself, its not a pretty picture. Inflammation of the stomach, loss of sight, temporary loss of breathing, insomnia, diarrhea, pain in extremities, difficulty swallowing, ulcerated stomach or esophagus, trouble concentrating, loss of memory and dry mouth. Take a deep breath, it gets worse. Swollen tongue, kidney problems, liver problems, trouble emptying your bladder, chest pain, seizure, muscle weakness, swollen glands, confusion, excessive bleeding or bruising and the worst imaginable side effect ever is that of anal seepage. WHOA, WHOA, WHOA, stop right there! Anal seepage? No thank you!
There are three drugs that increase the warnings listed above. They were treatments for arthritis, psoriasis, and a virus vaccine for children. Nothing too serious, right? Hummmm, I don’t know about you, but I'll take all three conditions at the SAME TIME, before I want to experience any of these side effect. For me, its a no brainer!
Here are some simple remedies for the most common complaints:
Insomnia: If you can’t sleep at night, maybe 5 cups of coffee and 6 caffeine drinks a day are not the best options for you, try switching to a sip of common sense. Maybe you could ask your spouse to explain their job responsibilities, you’ll find yourself asleep in no time. Another recommendation is to read the scriptures, you'll drift into a peaceful slumber and be blessed for having done so.
Stiffness and joint pain: Check out the birthdate on your drivers license, you may just be old and decrepit. Then try walking for a change, it increases endorphin levels, raises the amount of oxygen in the bloodstream, burns calories and provides a healthy dose of vitamin D. Honestly, its much better to gaze into the open sky than to sit around staring at your dusty feet.
Anxiety: Get up, get out and get busy. Anxiety is brought on by a chemical change that occurs in the body, usually induced by stress. The best way to eliminate anxiety is to do something kind for someone else (lose yourself in the service of others). It will lift your spirit and their's as well.
Depression: Nordstrom, Macys, and TJmaxx! Take a trip to your favorite store, it's cheaper than seeing a therapist and you'll have something glamorous to hang in your closet! Also, the lack of proper nutrition and trace minerals can render a person helpless. Get plenty of rest, good nutrition, and remember that vitamins and trace minerals are essential. Also, develop an exercise routine, get off your tush. Strive to eliminate the negative influences in your life. You may need to choose new friends or keep the negative family members at a distance.
Constipation: Open all your bills at once, that should do it! If that doesn't work, drink more water and increase your fiber intake. Soluble and insoluble fiber are the keys to a healthy intestine. No hemorrhoids here!
Head aches: Take two Twinkies and call me in the morning. Seriously, most headaches are caused from dehydration. Drink plenty of water and stay away from people who are a pain in the you know what!
Remember, LAUGHING is the best medicine in the world. Surround yourself with people who love life and laughter, they are the antidote for misery.
By Linda Sunmer Urza written for: onefineday11.blogspot.com
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