GETTING A GOOD GRIP ON ADVERSITY


I had a couple of days last week when I felt as though my life was unimportant and insignificant. Several random challenges came to me and I became very discouraged.

I've always been strong and resilient, but this time I felt overcome with self doubt. If you have ever had a similar experience, then you understand the overwhelming feelings that follow. 

I remembered the words of Winston Churchill when he said, "Never give in. Never give in, never, never, never - in nothing great or small, large or petty, never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense. Never yield to force. Never yield to the apparent overwhelming might of the enemy...do not let us speak of darker days: let us speak rather of sterner days. These are not dark days; these are great days--the greatest days our country has ever lived; and we must all thank God that we have been allowed, each of us according to our stations, to play a part in making these days memorable in the history of our race."  His profound words still echo throughout the decades.

Challenges can create perceptions of failure and even worse, they conjure up feelings of being unloved and insignificant. I mustered up the strength to remember how unique I am as an individual. We are all remarkable people who possess magnificent skills, talents and gifts. Despite what happens in this life, we have the power to overcome the most difficult challenges, even those that seem virtually impossible. This life is not exempt from pain and suffering, but we can be made strong in our weakness.  

History is filled with examples of individuals who where subdued by defeat, yet they continually pursued success, which was forthcoming and in spite of their failures.  These people were able to capture their dreams and magnify their potential through the shear determination to press on.   

Below, I have listed a few individuals who beat the odds and overcame the evil whisperings of defeat.  We are fortunate to learn of those who refused to give in or give up in the face of adversity; they have blazed the trails of victory and their direction is clearly defined. 

Henry Ford failed and went broke five times before he finally succeeded.
Beethoven handled the violin awkwardly and preferred playing his own compositions instead of improving his technique. His teacher called him hopeless as a composer.
Colonel Sanders had the construction of a new road put him out of business in 1967. He went to over 1,000 places trying to sell his chicken recipe before he found a buyer interested in his 11 herbs and spices. Seven years later, at the age of 75, Colonel Sanders sold his fried chicken company for a finger-lickin' $15 million!
Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor for lack of ideas. Disney also went bankrupt several times and exhausted the financial resources from friends and family before he built Disneyland.
Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four years old and didn't read until he was seven. His teacher described him as "mentally slow, unsociable and adrift forever in his foolish dreams." He was expelled and refused admittance to Zurich Polytechnic School. The University of Bern turned down his Ph.D. dissertation as being irrelevant and fanciful.
The movie Star Wars was rejected by every movie studio in Hollywood before 20th-Century Fox finally produced the movie. It went on to be one of the largest grossing movies in film history.
Louis Pasteur was only a mediocre pupil in undergraduate studies and ranked 15 out of 22 in chemistry.
When NFL running back Herschel Walker was in junior high school, he wanted to play football, but the coach told him he was too small. He advised young Herschel to go out for track instead. Never one to give up, he ignored the coach's advice and began an intensive training program to build himself up. Only a few years later, Herschel Walker won the Heisman trophy.
When General Douglas MacArthur applied for admission to West Point, he was turned down, not once but twice. But he tried a third time, was accepted and marched into the history books.
After Fred Astaire's first screen test, the memo from the testing director of MGM, dated 1933, said, "Can't act! Slightly bald! Can dance a little!" Astaire kept that memo over the fireplace in his Beverly Hills home.
The father of the sculptor Rodin (The famous Thinker Statue) said, "I have an idiot for a son." Described as the worst pupil in the school, Rodin failed three times to secure admittance to the school of art. His uncle called him uneducable. Yet, Rodin created the famous statue with his amazing talent that is known throughout the world. 
Babe Ruth, considered by sports historians to be the greatest athlete of all time and famous for setting the home run record, also holds the record for the most strikeouts.
Eighteen publishers turned down Richard Bach's Jonathan Livingston Seagull, before Macmillan finally published it in 1970. By 1975 it had sold more than seven million copies in the U.S. alone.
Margaret Mitchell's classic Gone with the Wind was turned down by more than twenty-five publishers.
Richard Hooker worked for seven years on his humorous war novel, M*A*S*H, only to have it rejected by 21 publishers before Morrow decided to publish it. It became a runaway bestseller, spawning a blockbusting movie and highly successful television series.
When the first Chicken Soup for the Soul book was completed, it was turned down by thirty-three publishers in New York and another ninety at the American Booksellers Association convention in Anaheim, California, before Health Communications, Inc., finally agreed to publish it. The major New York publishers said, "It is too nicey-nice" and "Nobody wants to read a book of short little stories." Since that time more than 8 million copies of the original Chicken Soup for the Soul book have been sold. The series, which has grown to thirty-two titles, in thirty-one languages, has sold more than 53 million copies.
In 1954, Jimmy Denny, manager of the Grand Ole Opry, fired Elvis Presley after one performance. He told Presley, "You ain't goin' nowhere… son. You ought to go back to drivin' a truck." Elvis Presley went on to become the most popular singer in America.
Dr. Seuss' first children's book, And to Think That I Saw it on Mulberry Street, was rejected by twenty-seven publishers. The twenty-eighth publisher, Vanguard press, sold six million copies of the book.


“Sometimes the strongest people are those who love beyond all faults, cry behind closed doors, and fight battles that no one ever sees.” Author Unknown 
Never doubt your potential! Never give up on your dreams and never, never, never underestimate the power of your potential to do good in this life. You are the most perfect and original "you."  If you desire a productive life, be committed to persistence!  Written by Linda Sumner Urza: onefineday11.blogspot.com

THE GRATITUDE OF THANKSGIVING


November is the month of Thanksgiving and a time to reflect upon the gratitude of life and all that we have been given. 
Gratitude itself is the mark of a humble heart.  We love to be around those who are grateful; they have an innate ability of brightening the world around them. They make others feel better about themselves and are often more humble, more joyful, more likable.  

We are all much happier in the presence of a grateful and loving soul.  Where there is appreciation, there is courtesy and there is concern for the rights and property of others. I believe that many people are unhappy because they have not learned to be grateful. Some carry the burdens of bitterness and resentfulness while other pass their days suffering a deep sadness they cannot define. There are some who are unhappy because life didn’t happen to turn out the way they thought it would.
“If only I had money,” some might say to themselves, “then I could be happy.”
“If only I were better-looking.”
“If only I were smarter.”
“If only I had a new car, a college degree, a job, a wife, hair that wasn’t so frizzy.” 
If we look around us, there are a thousand reasons to be happy, and it’s irresponsible to blame our unhappiness on the things we lack in life.  The problem is, the more we focus on the things we don’t have, the more unhappy and more resentful we become.
Comedian, Jim Carrey, grew up in extreme poverty. Often he has shared stories of living in his car, being hungry and having only a few coins in his pocket.  After making his millions as a comedian/actor he said, "I hope everyone can get rich and famous, and will have everything they ever dreamed of, so they will know that it's not the answer." 

Parents who teach their children the virtue of gratitude, reap the rewards for their efforts a hundred fold. Gratitude can produce the results of happiness and peace, and it can assist in easing the heavy burdens in a challenging life. 
You cannot predict happiness by the amount of money, fame, or power a person has. External conditions do not necessarily make a person happy. My family has had the opportunity to travel and live in some of the poorest countries around the world. They found that despite the abject poverty, the people are very happy. The fact is that the external things so valued by the world are often the cause of a great deal of misery. Things do not provide happiness, people do. 
"Gratitude turns a meal into a feast and drudgery into delight.  Gratitude softens our grief and heightens our pleasure.  It turns the simple and common into the memorable and transcendent. It forges bonds of love and fosters loyalty and admiration."  Joseph B. Wirthlin. 
The power of gratitude is immense. To be grateful is to recognize the love of God in everything He has given us, and He has given us virtually everything.  Every breath we draw is a gift of His love. This November, look for the silver lining in your life and you will find it.  by Linda Sumner Urza: onefineday11.blog spot.com

"FOR THE SAKE OF GOD!"


I speak my mind and I don’t mince words, nor do I beat around the bush.  If I have something to say, it will be straight forward and there will be no confusion where I stand when I'm finished. So, brace yourselves.

How you voted this past election may have put the future of your salvation in jeopardy, and I suggest not taking that lightly.  The next destination, after this life, is to establish ones accountability with God the Almighty.  Your vote cast on November 6, is a perfect indication of ones beliefs and what they sustain and support in this life!

This past week, I learned many things about the people of this country and about those who would do anything for power. I am sure a majority of voters failed to realize they were signing death certificates when casting their votes.

I am a Christian and I am offended by the liberalism of these people! Offended that I am asked to tread lightly with my religious beliefs, as not to offend another person, while the perverted choices of the liberals are shoved down my throat.  I am taking a stand, there is no question what I sustain! 

The reign of liberalism has defiled the moral integrity of this country!  Let me refresh your mind in what a liberal vote sustains, hidden among the smoke and mirrors, and in the name of democracy.  Every signature on the Democrat ballot approved the deaths of approximately 1.37 million babies; each and every year in the Obama administration!  Those signatures legalized the termination of life from fetus to full term 9 month babies! (A living soul literally ripped from the womb "at anytime" during pregnancy and pitched into the trash!)  Any Christian who voted Democrat has taken upon themselves the blood and sins of this generation!  

When signing the Democrat ballot, a person agrees to provide little boys, age 12, with condoms in middle school and little girls, age 12, free abortions without parental consent!  Signing on the dotted line gave approval for prostitution of high school and college girls, by offering an abundance of free condoms and birth control pills --  as well as, promoting loose and lascivious behavior, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, murder of unborn children, marijuana, and every other impure and evil practice known to mankind. There is nothing Christian about these practices and if you think God approves of this behavior - it may be too late for you!

The principles of God are no where to be found within a Democratic platform.  Over the years, liberals have embraced hostility toward God and have fought vigorously, from every angle, to eliminate His sacred name.  A vote in their favor is a pledge to sustain the insatiable desire to destroy the good and defile the innocent.  So, don’t ever tell me that the words "Christian and Democrat" belong in the same breath!  

I completely washed my hands of the Democrats when they voted, three times, to remove God from their platform at the DNC!  I knew at that moment what defined their party. Their blatant and conscious decision to keep God out is the preface of intrinsic evil.  There will be an eternal consequence for their actions. 

I am not ashamed of God, nor am I ashamed to say the truth.  I am, however, ashamed of how far the people of this great nation have fallen, and I tremble for those who have lost their moral compass! The ramifications for intentionally deleting God are devastating! The ink has dried on the ballots; Heaven and Earth cannot erase the signatures of those who sustained this kind of evil. 

There are many who will object to what I have written, but I don't care what you think, I care what God thinks.  And, the next time you sit in church and bow your head in the name of God, I hope you take  the time to repent for your actions in the decline of this great nation; even "One Nation Under God!"

Isaiah 5: 20:  Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter! There is no place to hide the secret combinations of evil from the eyes of God.  

I am sharing this information in hope that it may inspire change, for if you love God, you must know Him and His ways.  If my appeal can save one person in the future from being beguiled by the Democratic party, then my words have been well spent.  Its time to stand for God and for His plan of Salvation.  By Linda Sumner Urza: onefineday11.blogspot.com





WE CAN DO BETTER THAN THIS


Why are we here on earth and what is our purpose? I don't believe we are here to attain wealth, material possessions, popularity, or fame.  I believe we are here to build a beautiful world, to learn, to teach and to become better people. Those who exemplify high morals and standards, indeed fill the world with their goodness and assist in elevating mankind. Would Heavenly Father desire anything less for His children? 


Father in Heaven gave us a beautiful world, with the potential to become prosperous and replenish the earth.  I am deeply saddened by the turmoil, poverty, and discord that's being created in a world of endless possibilities.

What have we done with the marvelous gifts we have been given?  

Someone once said, "A picture is worth a thousand words." I leave with you a million reasons to strive to make this world a better place in which to live.

Strive to be a little better each and every day. Strive to make a difference in the lives of others. Strive to create a world of healing. Strive to develop unconditional love and kindness. Strive to magnify your individual potential for goodness. Strive to see the image of God in the face of every soul. Our children do not deserve to inherit a world of chaos. As parents, teachers, leaders, mentors and heros "we can do better than this!" 

By Linda Sumner Urza: onefineday11.blogspot.com
  

A BRIGHTER FUTURE FOR AMERICA


Electricity filled the crowd in the Pensacola Civic Center this past Saturday, when Mitt Romney talked about an electricity of a different kind.  Romney, a onetime Scout leader, was speaking about a Boy Scout ceremony in which the Scout leader from Monument, Colorado, told a story of a special flag.

This particular Scout division wanted a unique American flag to be remember within their troop.  They bought a new flag and had it flown at the U.S. Capitol and then requested NASA send it on a space shuttle. The shuttle that the flag was on, happened to be the Challenger; the tragic flight that exploded midair in 1986.

The Scout leader called NASA and asked if any pieces of the flag had been found in the debris and if so, could it be sent to the Scout troop. They were informed that nothing had been found.  Each month, thereafter, the leader continued to call.  After many months of random discoveries, in the debris from the tragic explosion of Challenger, the Monument flag was discovered!  A representative from NASA flew out and presented it to the Scouts in Colorado and amazingly enough, it was still folded neatly in the sealed container and in perfect condition.

The Scout leader unveiled this beautiful flag at a Scout Award Ceremony that Mitt Romney was attending.  In amazement, Romney reach out and touched the flag.  "I touched it," Romney told the Pensacola crowd, "and I felt electricity running through my arm."

The way Romney told the story captivated the crowd and the enthusiastic audience of 12,000 strong, became silent.  Romney continued telling this story, this true and moving story into a broader narrative, quite seamlessly, about heroes and honor.  A story told in the context of honoring heroes like the Navy pilots based there in "a city of heroes," Pensacola, and those pilots who had been based there in the past, like a man named John McCain.  Romney began quoting a verse of America the Beautiful. "O beautiful, for heroes proved, in liberating strife, Who more than self their country loved, and mercy more than life."  The crowd stood motionless as he spoke, "This is who we are as a people. You don’t have to be bigger than things to be a hero, you just have to be bigger than yourself...to strive to live beyond oneself.

His speech was not awkward or canned. None of it seemed forced, but it rang true and flowed naturally in a testimony from the heart.  He opened up with a genuine appeal to the audience and had naturally inspired those who were present.

It wasn't just the crowd's enthusiasm that was electric that day, and it wasn't just the sensation of the Monument flag, but Romney himself was electric.  He was the source of energy and there was a light coming from this amazing man. Romney was "hitting his stride” in an "elevated campaign" that was  truly inspiring Americans.  

Governor Romney has the look and feel of a true leader and certainly is worthy of serving this great nation.  Let us turn up the volume for all to hear that his good works are just beginning. Linda Sumner Urza: onefineday11.blogspot.com